
Bra Basics (and a Word on Shapewear)
Band, cup, sister sizes, the many kinds of bra, and what shapewear actually does.
Why bras are confusing (itโs not you)
Bra sizing is famously muddled. Different countries use different numbers, brands fit differently, and lots of shops still use old measuring methods. Plenty of women wear the wrong size for years! So if this feels new - youโre in excellent company.
The two parts of a size
A bra size like AU 14C / UK 36C has two parts:
- The band (the number) - the size of the strap that goes round your ribcage. This does most of the support work (around 80%), not the straps.
- The cup (the letter) - how much volume the cup holds relative to the band. A C cup isnโt one fixed size: a 12C and an 18C hold very different amounts.
Measuring at home
Youโll need your soft tape and a mirror. Measure wearing a non-padded bra or nothing.
- Underbust (snug): pull the tape snugly round your ribcage, right under your chest, level all the way round. Breathe out. This is the starting point for your band.
- Bust (loose): measure round the fullest part of your chest without squashing. Many fitters also take a leaning bust (bend forward 90ยฐ and measure) for a better read on volume.
- The difference between bust and underbust roughly gives the cup: about 2.5 cm (1 inch) per cup letter - 2.5 cm โ A, 5 cm โ B, 7.5 cm โ C, 10 cm โ D, and so on.
| Underbust (approx.) | AU | UK / US | EU |
|---|---|---|---|
| 68โ72 cm | 10 | 32 | 70 |
| 73โ77 cm | 12 | 34 | 75 |
| 78โ82 cm | 14 | 36 | 80 |
| 83โ87 cm | 16 | 38 | 85 |
| 88โ92 cm | 18 | 40 | 90 |
| 93โ97 cm | 20 | 42 | 95 |
Sister sizes: your secret shortcut
If you go down a band size, go up a cup letter (and vice versa) to keep the same cup volume. So AU 14C โ AU 12D โ AU 16B. Band feels loose but the cups fit? Try the sister size with a smaller band.
The fit checklist
Do up the band on the loosest hook (itโll stretch over time, and you can tighten it), then check:
- โ Band sits level all the way round and doesnโt ride up at the back. You can fit about two fingers under it.
- โ Cups are smooth - no spilling over the top or sides, no wrinkly empty space.
- โ Straps stay put without digging in. If theyโre doing the heavy lifting, the band is too loose.
- โ Underwire (if any) sits on your ribcage around the breast tissue, not on it.
- โ Centre gore (the bit between the cups) sits close to your chest. If you have a wider-set chest or smaller breasts, it may not touch - thatโs completely fine.
Then do the scoop and swoop: lean forward and gently scoop tissue from under your arms into the cups. It often changes the fit more than youโd think!
The bra family
| Type | What it is | Great for |
|---|---|---|
| Bralette | Soft, wire-free, often lace, lightly lined or unlined | Comfort, lounging, smaller chests, peeking out of a top |
| Wire-free / soft cup | Structured but no wire | Everyday comfort |
| T-shirt / moulded | Smooth seamless foam cups | Invisible under fitted tops |
| Push-up / padded | Extra padding at the bottom and sides | Adding shape and cleavage |
| Plunge | Low centre for deep necklines | V-necks and wrap tops |
| Balconette | Wide-set straps, horizontal top edge | Square and sweetheart necklines |
| Strapless / multiway | Straps removable or convertible | Off-shoulder and halter tops |
| Sports bra | Compression or encapsulation support | Exercise, and super comfy every day |
| Pocketed bra | Has inner pockets for inserts or forms | Adding shape with pads or breast forms |
Budget: Discount department stores and high-street favourites (like Target, Walmart, Primark, Marks & Spencer or Cotton On) have great basic bras for $10โ25 / ยฃ8โ20. Mid-range brands (Bonds, Aerie, Berlei, Triumph) offer sturdier support. Most major department stores and independent bra boutiques offer free fittings - professional fitters have seen every shape and size imaginable.
A word on shapewear
Shapewear is snug, stretchy underwear that smooths and gently holds. It comes as high-waisted briefs, shorts (great against thigh chafing too!), slips, camis and bodysuits.
- Itโs never required. Plenty of women never wear it.
- Use it to smooth lines under slinky fabrics, or just because you like the feeling of being held.
- Donโt size down. Shapewear thatโs too small rolls, digs in, and is genuinely uncomfortable. It should feel like a firm hug, not a vice.
- Choose light or medium control for everyday; save firm control for a few hours at an event.
- Cheap and cheerful: Department stores, supermarkets and high-street chains (Target, Primark, M&S, Walmart). Spanx and Skims are the famous (pricier) names.
๐ Keep exploring
- ๐งฐA Bra That Fits - size calculator โabrathatfits.org ยท A free, very thorough calculator from the r/ABraThatFits community. Uses several measurements for a better starting size.
- ๐ฌHow to measure for a bra (with and without breastforms); Vera Wylde โyoutube.com ยท A trans woman walks through measuring, including if you have little or no breast tissue yet.
- ๐ฌHow to Measure Bra Size | Bra Fitting Guide; Bras & Honey โyoutube.com ยท A professional fitter's walkthrough of the fit checks.
- ๐Bra size; Wikipedia โen.wikipedia.org
- ๐Foundation garment (shapewear); Wikipedia โen.wikipedia.org